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Our frailty makes us act in so many unthinkable ways well not really unthinkable but so to say weird ways. We know a lot of things from home, school and the internet but did you know that bad habits or the things that will negatively ruin our lives those are the things we go for?  These things promise us a lot. They make us powerless to stop and to resist. These promises are seemingly good stuffs then as at the time, it gives us pleasure, wealth, power, attention but sure enough none of we are ready to go for the consequences. We don’t want them as they make us pale and feeble at the end of it. Stop now and think.

When I had my first date, it was something I waited for because I had huts for this person. It is not as if I have never had outings before but there is a difference. I did not know that the first impression matters as guys notice a lot from a girl on a first date that will tell if they should keep  going or not. Yeah I am naturally pretty but a little make over, getting hair done and sorting the right outfit and dress would have done the magic. We had a nice meal, chatted well but he never called after that if I knew I would have looked better though not out of place but fine.

You know that feeling of always wanting to know? Yeah they call it curiosity, well I say that’s one devil because it always pop up when its not need. like peeping in a room when two adults are in, kissing when you don’t even know what you are doing but that one I like. But its a shame when we cant put a leash to this little naughty pit bull, then you will get to meet often with the rod or the blade or the gun and I but you wont be here to tell a tale. yeah that’s always the aim of curiosity, give back and account to whose interested. But what I like a curious mind because without that I bet malaria will still be the tyrant king in Africa.

Due to the diversity of humans on earth, you have a lot of ways with which people deal with disappointments. With some people, they give up on that aspect and they never venture again. They block that aspect and leave without learning anything. Others use the pain of disappointment to learn a lesson which will be useful to them in their future. While others let this disappointment kill them slowly, on the other hand others insist until it becomes a blessing. That is the positive mental attitude with which we need to handle disappointments turning them into stepping stones for future stumbling blocks.

Life legends that never die but live on, guys will live on as visual beings. Do you want to argue? Well there is no arguing an issue about it because there is no arguing the fact that having a penis makes you a male. Let’s see why it’s so. Guys, yeah true I don’t know much about you people but I know you are visual. You most often moved action or judgement by the things you see. It helps your analyses. For example taking a woman as a wife, is based on what you see, her appearance, the way she serves coffee etc. I must say it is a good thing as it works for you. I need to know how that operates. Teach me.

You have wanted something in my life so bad that every nerve in your skin gets alert to the slightest sound that feels like even if it is not that thing. Sometimes our desires, our passions and wants get so strong as an obsession that if we don’t get help to keep it under control, they will take control of us. Often in time, these things take full grasp on us because we often do not know how to get through to what we want maybe because of fear; we are shy or other reasons understandable by us. But know this; no one will ever push you than you can push yourself. Put in your all with confidence and get that dream to live.

In her early years, she really wanted to become a writer. She grew up with loving parents that encouraged her. Since she was determined, she had good grades at the university and her first novel became best selling. She got to have a loving husband that she is also wanted too. Then she had to keep writing since it was what gave her the income to spend. A new idea pops in for a wonderful novel on gambling, getting her to gambling losing all the family worked for. She did have her novel as she wanted but loosed her family. Yeah she wanted to be a writer but she never wanted it to get in the way of the family she always wanted. How conflicting can our wants get? Judge your wants.

Life turns into twists because we often respond wrongly to situations. Given the option to think we feel and when expected to feel, we think. We don’t easily strike a balance between both. Being single is not written on anyone’s forehead and it baffles us to know that certain people are alone or better still care about us truly. You and they know it’s for real what they feel but you are already hooked-up so to say. I had to think instead of feel but I trusted feeling. Their uniqueness and power in their look break every bone in me. Love, oh don’t love me at least not now. I don’t want to hurt love. Please not now I need all to think well, don’t love me now. Love is magic it gets us twisted.